Are You Stuck In A Rut And Ready To Get Out?

Are You Stuck In A Rut?

Do you feel like no matter how much you want to change,
you still find yourself falling into the same rut?  I know what you mean, I felt the same way many times. Even after I had achieved a certain amount of success in my home based network marketing business, I found myself “stuck” several times in my entrepreneurial career. 🙄

Our Minds Are Like A Computer

I finally found the answer once I understood how “Kellie” really worked.  We are like a computer and our minds execute approximately 60,000 thoughts per day. The challenge is that most of our thoughts are automatically running, just like the software program on our computers.  It executes according to the program which runs in our subconscious mind based on our habits.  We are not consciously aware of most of our thoughts, so they just keep on executing the same way each day, like the software on our computer executes it’s programs the same way! 😯

Upgrade Our Mind’s Software

What do we do when we want to upgrade our software program on our computer?   We install the new version of the program, right?  Then the new program overwrites the old one and the old software program is erased forever!  Therefore, what if we wanted to upgrade our 60,000 thoughts?  Yes, we upgrade and erase the old programs! 🙂   Really! 😆   Here’s a video we created to help all of us see how this works:

Cool huh?  We had this idea and my wonderful husband Glen made a visual for all of us to see.  This video will assist us and replace some of our old programs with a new understanding of how to upgrade to new thoughts and a new understanding.

Tools To Upgrade Our Mind’s Software:

Other tools which we can use to upgrade our “mind’s software” are:

1) Start a Personal Growth plan and commit to it daily;

3) Create a vision board;

4) Place pictures, posters and reminders everywhere of what you want to create in your life;

5) Visualize daily.

We are re-programming our mind to “Be” and create our future reality, so we are overwriting the current “illusional reality” of what we are seeing.  This takes constant and consistent effort because we are replacing some of the 60,000 thoughts daily.  Everyday our old thought patterns will become less and our new thoughts will become dominant.  Our blog post on Quantum Physics explains further why what we currently see as reality, is really just an illusion.

When Jim Rohn says “Work Harder On Yourself, Than You Do On Your Job“, this is what he meant.


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Sending you a lot of “Aloha” (love) & “Mahalo” (thank you) for being a part of our “Ohana” (family)!


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37 Comments For This Post

  1. Val Wilcox Says:

    Awesome Kellie!
    Love it. There definitely is synergy working here between us. This video and your tips is alot like NLP, where you use visualization to change your mindset. This is a great reminder to picture your reality.

    I appreciate you,
    Val 🙂
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  2. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Aloha Val,
    Thank you so much for your comments. I know we are so on the same wave length! It must be our mastermind group! 🙂 Thank you so much for your support and friendship! I appreciate you too! 🙂

  3. Lani Iokua Says:

    Aloha Kellie,
    OMG! what a great article! Love the video and visualization.

    Mahalo Nui Loa!

  4. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Mahalo (thank you) Lani! We are so happy you enjoyed it! Yes, didn’t Glen do a great job? He’s so wonderful and I am so blessed. Aloha 🙂

  5. Lisa Arnold Says:

    Kellie, Thanks for the visual as well as the tools we can use to re-program our minds. Like Jim Rohn said, whenever I work harder on myself, than on my job, all areas of my life ‘flow’ and work together better.

    This was a great blog post and I love the videos you do. (You look incredible too! Your skin is AMAZING!!)

    Thanks for all that you do,
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  6. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Aloha Lisa,
    Thank you so much for your beautiful comments. Your words mean a lot to me! Yes, Jim’s words are so meaningful and so powerful! I hear him everyday. Thanks for the comments on our videos too! You know how much I struggled to do them…LOL 🙂 Thanks for the compliment on the skin…hmmm I wonderful where that comes from…could it be 15 1/2 years of good nutrition on the inside and on the outside?? I’ll let you decide that. Not bad for someone who is turning the 1/2 century in 14 days!!..LOL 🙂
    Much love & gratitude 🙂

  7. Tinei Says:

    Hey Kellie!
    Thnks so much for this post. Once again you posted the right thing at the right time. I can see how daily personal developement in the beginning can seem hard to keep up with, but I know that I am committed to making the changes necessary to be a success.

    Alofa and Fa’afetai

  8. Kellie Says:

    Aloha Tinei,
    You are too cute! I am so happy you are doing daily personal growth. It’ll change your life forever! I am so excited for you and everything you are accomplishing. Much love 🙂

  9. Marla Wagner Says:

    Working on an upgrade. Thanks Kellie.

  10. Kellie Says:

    Aloha Marla,
    So wonderful to see you here on our blog! Thank you for your comments. 🙂

  11. Jacqueline Gates Says:

    You’re so right ~ what goes on between the ears will make or break your dreams.

    I invested in Mind Movies, which gives me much the same result as your video without having to have the resident techie LOL

    Bliss and blessings,
    the goddess known Jacqui
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  12. Kellie Says:

    Aloha Jacqui,
    Yes mind videos are great! I know, I am so fortunate to have such a skilled and talented husband who can create any kind of video I want…heehee :0) I am so blessed! 🙂 Thank you for your wonderful comments and support! Much love & gratitude 🙂

  13. Holly Says:

    Hi Kellie, Great reminders. Making sure that what goes on between the ears is helpful instead of the opposite is continual work. What you have said here is definitely a great part of what works. Thanks so much for your wisdom. Holly
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  14. Kellie Says:

    Mahalo (thank you) Holly for your comments! I really appreciate you! It definitely is continual work, that’s really the work isn’t it? Much aloha 🙂

  15. Linda G. Cox Says:

    This is the first time I’ve seen you in video! It’s fun to see what you look like, the Hawaiian in you, you’re beautiful! Thank you for sharing! I agree with my whole heart! We need to do exactly as you say! Create the life that we dream of, our own reality!

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  16. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Aloha Linda,
    So wonderful to see you on our blog. Thank you so much for your compliment on our video! Yes, it took me a while to get comfortable to create more videos. It means so much to me to hear comments like yours! Thank you for saying I’m beautiful, that’s all so new to me due to my challenges with weight my whole life. I am so glad you enjoyed our post Linda! I am looking forward to connecting with you again. Aloha 🙂

  17. Jaden Daniels Says:

    It is a process to change those old thoughts, but with the tools you have listed it makes it a lot easier. I have dream boards hanging in my house and my convenience store. I have affirmations written on my bathroom mirror, so I don’t forget to say them. But my wife wants me to clean the mirror now. LOL I guess I need to put them up in my office somewhere.

    The video was great, and I love your analogy with computer software, too.


  18. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Aloha Jaden,
    Thank you for your comments. It brings me great joy to see that the tools listed will help you. Yes, affirmations are such a huge key to over writing our old software. Thanks again 🙂

  19. jackieulmer Says:

    This is fantastic advice! These are all of the things I have used for the past 16 years to stay focused and pick myself up OUT of that rut.

    Successful people have ruts, too. They just seldom talk about them and they keep focused!

    Thanks Kellie!

    EXPECT Success!

    Jackie Ulmer

  20. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Aloha Jackie,
    Where’s your picture? LOL.. Thank you for commenting! I really appreciate you! I am glad you agree cause you have been so successful! And yes, I agree with you, we all have ruts too…I have found over the years, I have learned to do what Glen showed in the video and as we get better at it, it does get easier. Much love & gratitude. 🙂

  21. Young And Fabulous Says:

    I do the Holosync program everyday to meditate and re-program my mind. The tools/tips on how to upgrade your mind’s software that you outlined above would be a perfect compliment to what I’m currently doing. Thanks so much for these useful and valuable tips, Kellie!
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  22. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Aloha Cherrie,
    Thank you for your comments. Holosync is great to do daily! I am glad you got some ideas to compliment what you are already doing. Aloha 🙂
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  23. Karla Setchel Says:

    Thanks for the wonderful article Kellie! I love your videos and your content is always informative 🙂

    Karla Setchel
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  24. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Aloha Karla,
    Thank you and I am glad you enjoyed the video and the article. 🙂
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  25. jaccie Says:

    Hello Kellie,

    Thank You for sharing yet again another set of tips. Its funny because I just sent you an email saying how i was stuck & didnt know which direction to go in lol.. Well, it didnt answer ALL of my questions, but it did point me in a direction 😉 ..Thanks again Kellie for taking time out to help me climb that ladder..

  26. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Aloha Jaccie,
    I am so glad you got pointed in the direction you needed. Thank you for your comments. Aloha 🙂
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  27. Dena-Lynn Says:

    Hi Kellie,
    Because I consistently use the strategies that you suggest, I can affirm that all of them work amazingly well. The key is to be consistent. I love that you point out that those undesired parts will always be there in a smaller picture. The risk is that if the strategies that you point out aren’t used regularly, the small picture just might overtake the big picture that’s been created. Again, consistency is key! Great post, Kellie! Thanks 🙂

  28. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Aloha Dena-Lynn,
    So wonderful to meet you here on our blog! Congratulations on your success and consistency with using these strategies. You’re right in that it takes persistence to develop the habit of making it a part of our daily routine. Thank you for your comments. Aloha 🙂
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  29. Donna Merrill Says:

    Oh Kellie I am in love with this subject. My primary business is called “Mind over Matter” because I learned a long time ago that this can be done. I am also a student of quantum physics. Awesome isn’t it?
    I loved this video and seeing you shine. Kudos to your amazing husband with his talent also.
    Yes, we will always have those old thoughts in our head, but when we practice and recognize “hey this is an old thought” we can over come it quickly. The more we work on ourselves, the more we do not let those old thoughts get in the way because we can identify it.
    It takes dedication and practice. But as you say, it is not as difficult as many people think it is.
    Thank you for this post. I enjoyed it so much.
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  30. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Oh Donna, you won’t believe this…well knowing you, you will. I was just in the tribe and saw your comment and I was thinking about you, then I came to my blog and there you are!! Well, we know how that works, you send clear signals and I’m a receiver right? LOL..
    Thank you for your comments on our videos! I have been quite slow or should I say hesitate on making them, however, I now know it is the right thing for us. And yes, I am so blessed as my husband Glen just knows how to put my feelings into video! Much love Donna 🙂
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  31. David Keane Says:

    Thank you for this wonderful post Kellie. Working on old “beliefs” & software is definitely a continual process and your blog is a reminder of how exciting the process is when we visualise our own amazing potential! Thanks again, Dave.

  32. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Aloha Dave,
    Good to see you here on our blog! Glad you are enjoying our posts! Please share with Ireland! Aloha 🙂

  33. Richard Goutal Says:

    I was wondering what you meant by a personal growth plan. In this post you mention tools, and number one is a plan. Your link to “plan” actually described more of what the words “personal growth” mean. Maybe there is another post about that? Or maybe you’d like to write one? ; – )
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  34. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Aloha Richard,
    Nice to meet you here on our blog. Yes, personal growth is a big key to success and that is a link to another post in my blog. Just click on the Personal Growth highlighted and it will take you there. Thank you for your comments. Aloha 🙂
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  35. Jackie Ulmer Says:

    This is brilliant Kellie and so true! We will always be challenged by those “intrusive, little negative thoughts” but it is amazing how that shifts when you create the dream board, the dream book and read/listen to positive affirmations and such!

    Surround yourself with as much positive energy as you can and watch your life change!

    EXPECT Success!

    Jackie Ulmer

  36. Kellie Hosaka Says:

    Aloha Jackie,
    Thank you very much for your kind comments. Glen did such a great job on the video for me. I am so blessed! Yes, as you know all of that visualization and affirmations really do work! And positive people are the best! That’s why I started “hanging around” you!! 🙂
    Aloha and thank you. 🙂
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  37. Anneli Jonsson Says:

    WONDERFUL Kellie!!

    Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!!

    So inspiring and right on the spot for me!

    Aloha and lots of love!!

    🙂 🙂 🙂

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